I am sorry Nemisis and John for how I reacted. Everyone is different, and I for one am not sure that self centered people are more prone to depression. I think it may be true that some people who are prone to burning out meeting the needs of others at the expense of themselves may fall into depressions. I think too, for ex premies, having the same label applied to Rawat as the depressed person is going to sting.
But I am sorry Nemisis because I think you meant well, I over reacted and I hope I did not cause you pain. John is right, it is REALLY easy on the internet to misunderstand people. I am sorry.