One time I had been overseas for a long time and when I came back, I caught up with an old premie friend who had been at my wedding. We had coffee and chatted and I admitted that I was no longer a premie.
She was fine to my face, but later I read on FB her pretty scathing comments about me because of my apostasy. I was more annoyed at the hypocrisy of her saying one thing to my face and another behind my back. I would have respected her more if she had just discussed things with me in person, but I think that would have been too much honesty for a premie to deal with.
