In other words, if you've all really left M behind, why carry on going on and on and on about it?  Doesn't there come a time when it's a good idea to stop and move on, leaving the forum to other, fresher, newer exes?  How is it that different to leaving a (horrible) partner and then spending the next five years going on and on about himwith all his other ex-partners?  In that case, people could be forgiven for thinking you still hadn't truly moved on...

Rawat's not just an irritating spouse -- a rather private concern -- but a public hazard. 

Also, the whole notion of "moving on", at least as you and, coincidentally, the cult itself use it, is simplistic.  One "moves on" the moment one leaves the cult.  One can choose to speak out about it afterwards and still have all sorts of new interests in life.