When I read Dettmer's testimonie I get the impression that Rawat is just an ordinary human being, not a sociopath, who is incompetent for the demanding profession of a guru. Both he and premies are caught in an unhealthy guru-disciple relationship that degenerates them both.

Andries,

Who ever said there was such a thing as a healthy guru-disciple relationship?  You make it sound like this was a bad relationship, two people who should never have gotten married.  And this nonsense about the "demanding profession of a guru" -- what is that like being a doctor?  Would you speak of the "demanding profession of a fraudster"? 

May I ask, how long do you expect to keep posting on our forum?  Certainly you've got somewhere else to go in this big, lonely world, don't you?  Because I think you've worn out your welcome here, myself.  Does that matter to you?