When I discussed the websites and the information I had found here, I was immediately outcast from the group of people I used to go to videos with. The woman I met now has nothing to do with me.

The information on ex-premies' websites is either true or it isn't. If it isn't (which I assume is the view of this woman), then this should be clearly stated with evidence. The problem this woman, and others like her, has is that ex-premies' websites do have the evidence to support their content, and premies' website do not.