Btw, Jonx, are you ever going to respond to Mike Finch's post to you? 

Yes, when I get time.

We all want life to be defined by either black or white so that in our imagination we can find ourselves on the side of right. How can you come to terms with finding yourself on both sides, and again somewhere in between. Now that takes honesty.

Speak for yourself.  And once again, what are you talking about?  Clarify the words, please.

It takes honesty to allow yourself to NOT fall into eithe rblack or white.