Babalugi gives “Jagdeo, Monica, the drinking, the pot smoking, the money, his nasty personality, etc“ as reasons why they stopped practising. It hasn’t stopped me. Why? Because knowing a pedophile isn’t a slur on your character (I knew him as well). nor is having an open marriage, drinking, smoking pot or being rich.

Are you saying that Rawat's affair with Monica and miscellaneous sexual experiences with other women over the years has been a matter of open, respectful mutual agreement between him and Marolyn? 

I understand quite the opposite.