It has been so long since I even thought a thought like "positive things that help me" that the question didn't seem to make sense. Only people who feel a lack and aspire to more happiness /positivity /whatever in their lives would even think this sort of stuff.If you're a normal premie you'd be in your fifties and should really be past this sort of thinking. What's positive and beneficial in ex-premies' lives - the same as everybody else in the wealthy parts of Earth: family, friends, work, entertainment, the list goes ever on ...