I AM trying to have a civil conversation with you and you keep flaming out.

My response was to Neville. There are some on this forum like him who are consistently rude and arrogant, with whom I run out of patience.

If you can, please bring yourself to a place of centeredness and security so that you are not needing to react in anger and with put downs.

If you will stop condescending perhaps I could get there.

Really, you come off as a very insecure person. I don't mean this with any unkindness, but you are really hurting your case with your anger.

My case is supported by being honest, which sometimes includes reacting to what I see as bullshit in a very blunt way. I see this as a higher degree of honesty than spelling out my name and address to the world just to look macho. (By the way my name is still jonx. 

If you take the time to listen to the voices of the posters here and learn their personalities, you will see a great variety here.

Karen, I am not a newby. I have learned quite a bit about certain personalities over the years. It's not all flowers and fun like you would like to believe.