Bunny
I'll have to take your word for the horrific betrayal, because I don't know any details.
I think it is a sad day when we totally withdraw respect.
I'm not posting about John by the way, you seem to have missed the point. I am asking for people to bring things out into the open so we will all be able to judge.
If what John did was so awful (and I do not know what he did) then maybe that should come out into the open too.
I think if you heard innuendo about an erstwhile friend, someone who did some good , you would want to have the facts in the open too, no matter how damning, because things are better uncovered, than festering away.
So now I have to take your word for it that whatever hd did exposed people in some way. Was if financial damage, legal damage, what?