Wouldn't you feel tempted to suggest to a group of ex-partners of a violent man that they stop gathering together to go on and on about their time with him?  Wouldn't you feel like suggesting to them that for their own sakes it may be time for at least some of them to move on?

For the analogy to be apt the man would have to have a well-orchestrated false front, deceptive means to squeeze money, trust and all possible resources from his thousands of "partners" and a worldwide recruitment program.

Again, this reminds me of your political silliness.  You simply don't think clearly.