If a man takes a woman out on a date & after dinner & dancing he invites her to his place for a friendly night cap and then rapes her, is it the woman's fault?  You would be surprised of how many people would think its her fault! The man could have come off as so charming & charamistic, & friends may have told her he was  such a nice guy. He could have made her feel stupid for questioning  & not trusting him.  Afterwards, she would be so embarrased & ashamed because she willingly went to his place. The man who raped her is the one to BLAME, not the woman who was raped! Her only part was putting her trust in someone who was an EXPERT at manipulation! 

As for the Maharji, well he's the rapist! That's where the BLAME should & always remain!  NEVER IN ANYONE HERE! The heck with people who say otherwise, or try to excuse his behaviors! Its wrong, so very wrong, & no one deserves that! LET HIM take the responsibility for what he's done!