Jonx,

Don't you see?  Don't you hear what you are saying? You just said that you "surrender the reins of your life" to an "inspirational speaker?"  Say what?

You would do well to reconsider surrendering to your wife...... she actually knows who you are, cares about you, probably wouldn't want to see you hurt (ever!) and loves you "personally."  An inspirational speaker fall into any of those categories?  Not hardly!

I mean..... let's depersonalize this a bit and talk about another inspirational speaker..... would you surrender the reins of your life to Carl Sagan (if he were still alive)?  He DID know his cosmology, so there was no doubt about that..... would you surrender to him? 

Or, are you saying (without words) that M is still god-almighty?