I hear ya, Pat.  Yes, Mata Ji was probably the most revered, and in fact demanded the most attention and reverence.

I love in the LOTU video, she is sitting in the "residence" in Irvington, New York, saying that if the press understood knowledge, they would go into New York and buy everything for Mata Ji.  She was a tad full of herself.

I also was glad when the whole Holy Family thing evaporated.  We then removed their pictures from the Altars and we threw away our holdy family buttons.  Like Dermot, I had enough trouble just not being repelled by Prem himself, so getting rid of the Holy Family at least meant I didn't have to fight "my evil mind" about them as well.