Premies & ex-premies are never going to agree.

The only areas in life where there's no hope of issue resolution is where religion or other kinds of dogma limit peoples' ability to reason fairly.  You say the above because you're determined to avoid whatever evidence or arguments come your way which could undermine your faith.  The good news, however, is that many premies do begin to think for themselves again after interacting with exes. 

As for why we do this even when we've been out of the cult for years.  It's got nothing to do with "spiritual adolescence".  It's got to do with choosing to take an active stand against a fraud artist.