Right on:

The good news, however, is that many premies do begin to think for themselves again after interacting with exes.

Move on?  If it wasn't for reading around here I will have remain a premie.  Thanks to those who over the years posted, discussed, expossed rawat, all helped me understand the sick relationship I had with M. and K.

Why move on?  The guru and his premies may love that idea and that is why each and every time a premie post here the subject of why we stick around here surfaces.  It should be obvious to them by now. 

In my opinion people have the right and need to know who the guru REALLY is, so they can make up their minds.....and run.  

Hi Jim.