Well mine has been nice and so has the lives of most of the lovely premies I'v known. Maybe I could have known them better but it seemed good enough at the time. I've shared lots of laughter with premies since before and after leaving. You can't judge everybody else's experience as being identical to your own.

Bully for you.  Not everyone has lived a "picture perfect" life like you.

You think "sharing laughter" with a lot of premies is an indication of happiness in life?   No tears, not even one?

Btw, I don't think Lexy thinks in black and white, nor do I think that she believes everyone elses' experience are "identical to hers."  That's a pretty cold thing to say, IMO.