Premie Spouse,

I agree with all what Anth said. He is really level headed.

What he said about what "sort" of premie your wife is to me would matter. At least if really, the premie thing is what is driving you over the edge.

The other thing he said that I think is more true than you might realize is that those "drips" if they are happening, are not something she ( he ) gosh I am not sure of your gender, is going to admit to. I do recommend that book "releasing the bonds" because I think he talks about ways to make a few drips happen. One of the things that I do remember is showing genuine love and caring for the cult member.

I find you post very compelling.

Susan