I understand your perspective, Livia and indeed, most people do move on but you're up against that age-old dilemma which is that other people don't always see things the way we do and nothing we say will make a blind bit of difference.

I believe there is no "right" way here.  If you can move on then that's fine for you but if people can't, they shouldn't force themselves to.  Myself, I decided to move on not by conscious choice but because I lost interest in talking about Maharaji and found it more healthy to leave it alone after a while.  That was right for me but one man's meat...

Anyway, I'll give you a ring.  It's about time.

Cheers,

Dave.