I reposted my post as it's relevant to this new thread. I'm not trying to rush you.

What I'm saying is that you're wrong. Looking at me from the outside would support your idea that my life as a premie was the same as anyone else's but I'm telling you it wasn't on the inside. So, from my experience, and the testimonies of others here, it's reasonable to assume that this applies to the premies you know as well. They are in a cult that restricts their ability to think clearly, and the majority, if not all of them, would be better off out of it.