Hi Quirky,Actually I am not a long time premie by modern standards though I was back in 1980 and I got out 25 years ago. I don't think there are many ex-premies who post here who "Seem to have an agenda in responding to posts that picks apart any sentence that even seems to be nice in any way about a premie or cuts any slack to them." though it can be frustrating at times.
I suspect it's just personal quirks on their part and has nothing to do with how long ago they exited. Remember this is not a cult, you don't have to agree with any ex-premie. (except me of course)
