Sarcasm has it's place, Lexy...
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03/16/2005, 09:29:15
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And then again, it can be hurtful to people, so maybe this will help clarify it for you, just in case you didn't know.  Also, this doesn't just apply to "American English"  or interpretation.

From Online Etymology Dictionary: 

http://www.etymonline.com/index.php?search=sarcasm&searchmode=none

sarcasm Look up sarcasm at Dictionary.com
1579, from L.L. sarcasmos, from Gk. sarkasmos "a sneer, jest, taunt, mockery," from sarkazein "to speak bitterly, sneer," lit. "to strip off the flesh," from sarx (gen. sarkos) "flesh," prop. "piece of meat," from PIE base *twerk- "to cut" (cf. Avestan thwares "to cut"). Sarcastic is from 1695. For nuances of usage, see humor.
 

From Dictionary.com:

sar·casm   Audio pronunciation of "sarcasm" ( P )  Pronunciation Key  (särkzm)
n.

  1. A cutting, often ironic remark intended to wound.
  2. A form of wit that is marked by the use of sarcastic language and is intended to make its victim the butt of contempt or ridicule.
  3. The use of sarcasm. See Synonyms at wit1.


And here's the definition of passive-aggressive:

http://www.ces.purdue.edu/anr/field/gob/forms/passiveaggressive.html

Passive-Aggressive People

Passive-aggressive people avoid direct response, but "get even" with other people later for real or imagined slights.

This behavior is interesting because it's a hybrid of two other styles. Passive people behave passive-aggressively when they become "fed up." Aggressive people behave passive-aggressively when they perceive that they can't act in their normal aggressive fashion (usually because of an authority situation). For instance, an aggressive person who works for an aggressive boss will not tackle the boss directly, but will get even later.

It's often hard to tell when a person will behave passive-aggressively because passive-aggressive people collect a full "green stamp book" before they blow up. Because they don't tell others when something bothers them, they give permission to continue behavior which offends them. After they have a full green stamp book (in other words, when they decide they're fed up), they blow up.

Passive-Aggressive Behavior Clues

  • Sarcasm
  • Sniping, indirect criticism
  • Lack of eye contact

Maybe this will help:

Improving Assertiveness

http://hcd2.bupa.co.uk/fact_sheets/html/improving_assertiveness.html






Modified by Cynthia at Wed, Mar 16, 2005, 09:43:43

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