...just curious ! It is absolutely nothing to do with me whether you stay on the forum or not. Personally I find no objection whatsoever. I think it is the six anonymous moderators ( who also may post here using their forum names) who decide if we can stay on this forum .

Sometimes it helps ( when trying to answer their posts helpfully  ) to know a little about the contributors who post here and from "which direction" they are coming from.That's why I asked the questions.

Best wishes , Lexy.

P.S. I was a "premie" for over 30 years from the age of nineteen until I started to question my involvement in the last couple of years. I started posting here last July and have learned a great deal. I am British.