I certainly don't condone kidnapping either, but to be fair most of the people who were deprogrammed were not kidnapped. That was a minority. Mostly, they were visiting their parents or something and the deprogrammer just showed up and started talking to them. And mostly, it was successful, from the parents' perspective.
I remember Ted Patrick wrote a book and he said that premies were about the easiest to deprogram. Remember, he was called "Black Lightning?" Or something like that.
I think he did go to jail. Kidnapping is illegal and wrong under any circumstances.