What I find fascinating is how premies navigate around their blind spots, and trying to pinpoint when people begin to see it and decide to get out.  I think it happens first on an emotional level -- a feeling that gets you to question things and the intellectual understanding comes later.

I liked what Kerry was saying about being at an event and observing her own reactions.  That's what happened to me at a certain point too.  It takes that kind of objectivity before you can begin to see beyond the emotional traps.