"Don't you think it's about time you apologized too?  Your hero JM did.  What about you, Jim?  You've bullied and berated for so long that you probably don't have the humility available to do so.  All those people you've insulted and maligned over the years.  Now is the time to fess up.  Come on, reach deep down and get some of that humility you used to have.  You know, like when you would bend down and kiss someone's divine feet?  You had humility then, Jim.  Where did it go?  John is giving you the perfect opportunity to start over.  Join hands with John now and with all of your heart, just say "I'm sorry".  You can do that much for your friend, can't you?"  -Joy W.

It seems that Joy is focussing on Jim because he is one of the strongest and most articulate, even if not always the most tactful voices representing the ex-premie position.  But this is not about tact, it is about the truth about what happened to us while under the influence of Prem Rawat.  I think that Joy is focussing on Jim because she thinks if she can influence him, it will initiate a domino effect.  In theory, a good idea, but in practice, pretty stupid because she obviously does not know who she is dealing with. 

And when I read Joy's post I copied above she came acrosss as creepy and hypnotized or brainwashed.  Joy is most likely voluntarily and ignorantly bound and gagged inside herself, convinced it is 'surrender to the Lotus Feet of Love' and the 'Program' is running her and transmitting through her.