...fabulous post Jane. It seems like the kind of "padding" missing from the as I said , the" to the point " bare bones of your journey. I enjoyed reading your journey...but I enjoyed reading this even more. I hope it is saved in the " Best ofs " on EPO so I can easily access it.( I'll print it off anyway  ).

I also hope you can stick around on the forum.....although I agree... there is too much polarity and negativity Premie/Ex-premie.....The way you write would help to provide some much needed balance in this respect...sometimes I feel fed-up with the tone here but I don't feel ready to leave yet ( only "exed" a few months ago)....Many Thanks, Lexy.