"I love my partner but I am in no doubt that my nastiest behaviour has been reserved for them."

Quite right Gerry. That line just smacked me in the face. It was said so casually as if they really believed that this kind of behaviour was perfectly acceptable.  

So this premie's response to not being able to lose their mind in light and love is to be especially nasty to their partner.

My response to Premie Response's partner..........leave him/her ! YUK !!