No, I couldn't be 'tolerant of each other's views' on this. It either happened or it didn't happen, and it's not a matter of a point of view.
We now have a taped phone call with the kids and Prem on the line (from 2019, so before deep fakes) so I'm very much inclined to believe Hans and Shana's take. How could you not?
I'm growing more intolerant with age, and I have to watch out for that, but I'm really not up for having facts batted away as hearsay.
Acceptable: I'll take your 'facts' and go away and do some research.