It is very strange isn't it that the folk who post here could be perceived as 'threatening' in some way.  I like to post and read here sometimes because it can be interesting,  sometimes funny, because we have a common shared history and quite frankly after all these years it's also something of an extended friendship group.  OK the only poster that I have actually met is 13  but I think that just from the postings you do get an impression of the various kinds of people that we each are -- and on the whole seems  a pretty OK group to me - questioning, curious maybe but in no way hostile to anyone.