IMO a true therapist would say what GOK said when he asked POV to apologise to Susan.

The thing is that POV's posts re: the Jagdeo issue and particularly his attitude to Susan have caused offence to many of us but perhaps especially to all victims of abuse like GOK , Cynthia and my premie friend who E-mailed me suggesting POV's banishment , who shouldn't have to tolerate criticism ( when they were the victims ) on this forum which should be a "safe house" for them.