Lets just leave it there Gerry. I'm not forgiving you today. I'm afraid it is you who are not a gentleman.

And lastly I absolutely wouldn't dream of doing anyone on this forum or anywhere else any harm ( Cynthia's comment  about sussing me out ). I'm beginning to understand how careful you have to be but it still hurt that all I did was dare to post here ( just like Max ) and people thought I might be harmful. Sorry if I did it in a clumsy way .