What is more important, your marriage or Maharaji?
If your marriage is more important to you, you will not let Maharaji get in the way of your marriage. You will endure and keep the marriage together.
As a premie, I ended a relationship because I mistakenly thought Maharaji was more important than that relationship. If I had thought otherwise, that the relationship was more important than Maharaji, I would not have ended the relationship, regardless of whether I was still a premie or not and regardless of whether the other person was a premie or not.
If I thought the relationship was more important than Maharaji, I would have put up with the other person's premieness.