You say:

Does your husband have the "tiniest" doubt in his mind?

I would guess not.

And then you say:

YOU DONT KNOW, DO YOU?

Uh, emPathe, how do you know what her husband experiences?  And how do you know what he might think?

Are you some kind of mind reader?

You don't know.  That's who doesn't know.

You're just projecting what you think because you want everyone to believe what you believe.  And you have doubts about your precious beliefs when you read this forum.

But that's the great thing about being a premie with Knowledge.  You don't have to think. You KNOW.