Hi again,

I don't know what it is about some premie men (note I said some) hitting on female aspirants.  It was a practice for just a few guys I knew way back in the old days and it always created so many problems, mostly for the women involved.  Lots of times the women ended up being dumped and the guy moved onto the next one, but that was when there were usually a lot of aspirants to choose from.  Real movers, they were and yucky to watch.

It's like they take love-bombing into an entirely different dimension.  We churchladies (of both the male and female persuasion) never approved of the practice, but being so "non-judgmental" at the time, there wasn't much we could say or do, so basically we did nothing (regretfully).  Still, it really sucked especially when the woman ended up getting so hurt in the end.

You might want to read the sexual harrassment notice on Elan Vital-UK's website about this issue.  It's something to note, seeing that some EV members are feeling so free about moving in on females who are in the aspirant "process."  Actually, premie community contacts might want to read the EV sexual harrassment policy and take notice.

Policy Against Harassment

Elan Vital has a strict policy against sexual harassment or other forms of sexual misconduct. If you have been subjected to any form of sexual harassment or abuse by anyone associated or formerly associated with Elan Vital or other similar organizations, please contact Elan Vital’s National Director at P.O. Box 999, Hove, East Sussex BN3 3HZ or at nationaldirector@elanvital.org.uk.
Complaints will be responded to promptly and treated seriously.

http://www.elanvital.org.uk/elan_vital/values.html