Hi Joe,Although I have never heard M say this himself, it is a mutual understanding amongst premies that this is his wish. The word has been put around for a long time now, and is common knowledge amongst premies.
I first heard this myself about 4 or 5 years ago, from a well known premie, and one time PAM, and he made it quite clear that this was M's wish : that premies must not read EPO. Since then I have heard numerous premies saying the same thing. So by doing so, (reading EPO), a premie will automatically feel guilty, and of course it will stop some from even checking it out.
As I said in my post, the irony for me (or maybe M?) was that the lack of info on the premie websites led me to EPO. You really can get all the info you want there - and more!!