Seeing this now I can hear her saying it in my memory.

 I bought into this sort of schmalz deeply as a young man..

The nerve of Rawat implying it was all our own doing! This is him permitting the emotion surrounding his own marriage to be a tool for recruitment to the cause.

This sort of shit had a great influence on me and my atitudes to my own family and relationships all those yearsd ago.

Bryn