Welcome to this Forum, and I'm looking forward to hearing more about your story. In a Miami event a few years ago, hearing Daya perform her love songs sent shivers down my spine, too. It's eerily incestuous. And, the way she performs, she relies heavily on sexual magnetism (go figure!). So, men might be oogling her, as her songs are sung to her father. It's twisted!

Welcome, and take it easy.