I'm in a similar situation to Premie Spouse, Joy Wisdom. My wife is an active, practicing premie, and, before we got married, I had no idea she was involved in a cult.
To encourage Premie Spouse to get knowledge, and then face her husband is using really faulty logic. I know, because, in my darker moments, I have considered just caving in and accepting knowledge as an alternative to remaining resolute in my opposition of Rawat.
But, if I were to cave, how would that help my wife, Joy Wisdom? Then, instead of one partner being in a cult, there would be two of us. Your advice just doesn't seem viable, Joy. Besides, if anyone wants to know what knowledge is, the techniques are available on EPO, no strings attached.
So, why is it so important anyway to get knowledge from Maharaji? And, how would that really be helping me from trying to keep our marital life together? What's more important, Joy Wisdom, accepting knowledge or helping my wife stay grounded in reality?