that was a good article. thanks. Having heard a couple of stories recently from women about what they were prepared to do to keep their husband happy it's been a refresher of the 'frog slowly boiling in the pot' thing - but yes doesn't seem likely to be the same as what's happened here with Ghislaine Maxwell. who knows what's going on with her. scary isn't it.
I saw a segment on tv called the bee lady - she goes round the territory looking after the bees. And she said she prefers the company of bees to people - she knows where she stands with them, she knows when they will sting her but, she said, people are unpredictable.
I'd rather not think it, but I think she might be right.