Hope I wasn't too hard there on your memory OTS. 
I suspect you have loads of general compassion and good will (like the obvious toward Chris and Daya), although our acquaintance
has had a lapse of decades now.

 Let's have some Thanksgiving this week for all we do have.

This post is prompted by my coming across this book I might ought
to read for my own self-assessment and general development of compassion: