No one wants to think what it is like for the person married to a self-entitled one - mainly because it is too painful to contemplate, I think. 
being a servant is all about the quality of the master, isn't it?
To go into the laundry room and be demanding is disrespectful. Either it shows a wife who is self-important or it shows a wife who has caved in under the force of her self-important husband.
Being the wife of a cult leader she gets it from every direction. Her job description is keeping him happy. and everyone is on his side. While she believes in him she doesn't even have her own support, she believes it is her fault he isn't happy, she's on his side too.
