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06/25/2017, 16:16:36
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Hi Quinn, you're in the right place to clean out your head...
The more you write and discuss with your conscious mind the unwritten, unconscious stuff of the cult, the clearer you will get.
Clarity is one of those things m went on about, he pretended to offer.
The contrast is notable. I am clearer now than I ever was in the cult. 
Cognitive dissonance is not a great place to come at decisions with.

If you don't enjoy the company of certain premies then that is your self, your inner being giving you some guidance about what feels best going forward, don't you think?
those steps toward You are liberating and empowering 
Now that you're not a premie you get to exercise your free will and have a say in how your life goes!
It's enjoyable making new friends too and for me has been essential to hang out here and air the things that help loosen the grip of years of brainwash

I'm interested to hear more about your life. perhaps you just don't know what to say to these individuals? 
It helps to script something sometimes that you feel comfortable with that can turn the conversation away from it, if you need to have other dealings with them. 

Meanwhile it is hard to not come blurting out with the first 5 things that you find ridiculous about the whole trip!
Most of us have witnessed a drip by drip process and that seems to be the best way of getting through any truthful information

Personally I am embracing my own freedom first. Most, if not all of the premies I've let know I'm out, have backed away themselves, no need for much of a retreat on my part.
For them I have just sort of dissappeared
 I can only hope the conversation that led to that sticks with them a bit. 
Or that they read here 






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