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what made it so derogatory and what is this intent of mine you speak of
The topic of Marolyn's psychology seems to me a highly complex and sensitive area for public discussion, of which folks seem eager to jump on, some without much depth of consideration I think. Your comments seemed likely to inflaming others to jump on further. You written intent was, seems to me, to analyze her "helplessness in acting as her husband's puppet" and her becoming a "real mess". I thought that intent in these words certainly derogatory toward Marolyn. ...but I suppose you could have meant it as merely cold clear assessment.
what is so terrible about what I said compared to other posts?
I haven't given much of a thought at all as to how comparatively "terrible" your post was compared to others, "terrible" isn't my description. ...not clear on why you're asking. Is it just "Why don't you respond to others, too?" I thought I answered already it's a matter of time being unavailable to me for responding to every post in the way it deserves. Yours was the one I took time for.
And in the past postings, yours about "knowing what we don't know" hit a nerve or curiosity of what it could possibly be that you were getting at by that, or your meaning behind that post. I don't have it in for you, so to speak, if that's how it seems. We've never met; as OTS says, "I’ve not had the joy of experiencing a marmite on toast and a cuppa tea with you personally," so can't really yet get too merrily contentious.
When Mr Rawat called your mental acuity into question then all you can really deduce from that is you are probably more intelligent than he is.
Thank you for your kind comment Lesley about that. I really don't know if he is less or more intelligent. I just know that, with all that, I realized he didn't much like me as I thought he did, to say the least. ...and that if I were him I wouldn't want a guy anywhere around near me who so greatly lacked balance of mind as he said he believed of me. Well, then too, I thought "Okay, I've got to figure who is the crazy one in this relationship," and that happily began to make for a distance from him for me, and ultimately complete severing of ties with him in my mind, and a path on to carrying on, on my own.
Calling you the weakest link sounds like a put down to me.
Yes doesn't it. But a serious negative assessment too, no? Deadly maybe for any kind of meaningful interaction with a ... um ... "teacher"?
Can we "Carry on and Keep calm" now ...  ...or is there more to say, to ask, about this? Anything I can help for you to understand my post to anything I've said, I'll try to explain. Though I'm gonna be hopefully taking a vacation break from computers for awhile.
Modified by tarvuist at Fri, Jun 16, 2017, 20:34:15
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