Lesley:  Thanks for
caring.  Sorry about your family
abuse.  Travusit was making a point.  I don’t know if you got it.  It was that the extrapolation is causing him
not to want to get involved with this shit and both of us might need to take a break from the drama expressed. 
And he used your name about five times to drive home the point that his
message was specifically for you.  Your
response, instead of eliciting the sounds of RRRRRRRRRRRrrrrr (cat fighting), perhaps might have been posted a day or two later, after much reflection.  Travuist typed
til his fingers dropped here.  He really sounded sort of upset to the point of trying to point out something very
clearly.  And all of us not named you got a free lesson as well.  So, I write
to say, take your time, we’re in no hurry or fret here.  Things pop out here.  I need not stand up for Travuist in the
least, though I appreciate his support. 
My points being that I’ve not had the joy of experiencing a marmite on toast and a cuppa tea
with you personally among the wallabies, as I recall on my many wonderful trips Down Under, and don’t
really know you or your personal situation, nor had the at-the-time pleasure of doing "service" with you. 
But, I know what’s being said here. 
I also had some personal time on the residence staff and personal
relationships with R&M, and really don’t want to comment on all of this,
and won’t.  My outrage with Dr. John’s
admission to Innis is such that I won’t even mention it to his former
housemother, with whom I related to by marriage, who will freak out. 
We were as linked to the good doctor as any  premies can be and lived
with and near and about him for 30 years. 
His smirk and drool were real as described here.  So, Lesely, feel free to post, but take time/be
wise.  No need to be defensive to
Travuist’s heartfelt comments.  I’m glad
I’m off today and had time to digest them. 
I’m going to take an Alka-Seltzer now. 
Good Day.  One doesn't need to have been personally close to R&N to express any feelings here, but use caution, I think is a good rule of thumb.  Thanks, and I liked reading your comments anyway, though I get the response they elicited.