Yes Philareflection, I agree, this forum is most valuable as a way of deconstructing cult ideas and memories. as Inis says, sometimes writing is a more effective way of actually doing that.
I too find that writing brings more to the surface from my subconscious than speaking.
It's great to know that even with the many years of brain wash all it takes is a bit of honest reflection with a pen and paper, seeing the conflicting things he says. And the way he treats people...
I believe the next thing he'll be sneering at is journaling...