you would think not coming up with the right amount of bond in the first place would be enough?
I'm glad you are enjoying yourself in spite of the friction.
I find voicing my truth calmly,as in this isn;t working for me because A,B and C. This is my property and I will not have someone compromising my own feeling of comfort and security in my home , full stop. and making sure they hear me over and over again if need be,makes them uncomfortable enough to find someone else to fool. Here's hoping he jumps ship before the time he's been given because you see through him. All power to ya! I have watched a few videos on you tube, some of them helpful about signs of a narc and stock phrases that disarm them. Interesting stuff and occasionally helpful.