yes the character with the half hour psuedo analysis aggression saw it wasn't working and then started a half hour poor me session which somehow involved getting somewhere on the bike, returned in 2 hours he reckoned, fastest way to get him gone absolutely. The not quite family member just took it. That has been for more than a month now. suffice to say I'm fucked off.
The ex stalker , manipulator extraordinaire has sent about 6 emails since , each more ridiculous than the last and yes he got a raise out of me in the end, that magically clams him down because he needs to know he can control me. He is apparently in hospital for 'his depression' however there is no pill for being an arsehole narcissist. There is no getting around them just getting as far away as humanly possible